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The beginning of the year is a good time to do some “out-of-the-box” thinking with your leadership team. Try something new! Do your women’s ministry events for 2015 include a lot of the usual, the familiar, the traditional and the tried and tested? I think most of us would say a resounding “yes!” to that question, even though we are always on the lookout for new and exciting things to try and incorporate into our women’s ministry.
Maybe Retreat-in-a-Bag can help you try something new. Have you ever used a skit? Start small and try one of our one-act skits or pull a short skit from a skit series and see how your ladies respond. A good one to start the year out might be “Good Intentions” from our Confronting Your Giants skit series.
We also have a section for Quiet Time Studies that we have used at retreats. But some of our most recent ones have been “interactive”meaning that they can be done in a group and requires some sort of interaction. Check out “Strongholds of Unsurrender”.
Perhaps you have never had a retreat for your women. You can start out small. Take some of our retreat ideas and make them your own–or look into one of our Retreat-in-aBag books where the planning is done for you. Or maybe you have never used promise verses at an event or retreat.
And if Retreat-in-a-Bag doesn’t have what you need, check our our links. There are some great women’s ministry sites out there!

I was planning to write a blog concerning specific ways we can show our women that we care about them. I still may do that. But I heard this song (from a 1980’s sitcom) again this week, and I think the lyrics hit the nail on the head as far as “step one” in caring for our women.
You may recognize these familiar lyrics:
Sometimes you want to go
Where everybody knows your name…
And they’re always glad you came…
You wanna be where you can see your troubles are all the same…
You wanna be where everybody knows your name.”
I think that song writer was onto something! Maybe the very first way that we can show our women that we care is by learning their name….and letting them know that we are glad they came…and being open and honest so they know that they are not alone in their struggles.
How can we create that caring atmosphere in our women’s ministries? I know we all want it–we want everyone to feel welcomed and comfortable in a safe environment that encourages open sharing. I think it has to start in our leadership and trickle down from there. We as leaders need to do what it takes to learn names and go out of our way to welcome people. We need to be open and honest about our daily walk and daily struggles and temptations so that we can all come to the foot of the cross together in weakness and humility.
Your speaker sessions have finished for the day, a delicious dinner has been enjoyed, and now night is falling.
Instead of giving your women the “night off,” seize the opportunity to provide a great evening of fun and fellowship!
This particular year our retreat was at The Cove in Asheville, North Carolina instead of our usual trek to the beach. Our team needed to come up with a low-cost, fun activity that would meet the needs of 80 women ranging from their early 20’s into their 80’s.
In our pre-retreat information letter we asked our women to bring a fun pair of slippers and requested they wear them Saturday evening. We didn’t give them any further details.
One of the members of our planning team came up with the Slipper Contest categories and certificates – the wildest slippers, most comfortable, silliest, etc. We had a total of 5 or 6 categories in all.
When we gathered in the auditorium on Saturday evening we passed out the category list to every woman. Those that were interested in competing modeled their slippers on the stage for all to see. Our emcee really talked up each model and their slippers. We made sure we said each name multiple times so our judges could fill in their ballots completely.
We tallied the ballots and put names on our certificates while we showed the comedy DVD “Thinking Out Loud” by Anita Renfroe. It was so funny! We laughed so hard we cried.
Not only did we bond and laugh over the funny things in the video, but we all shared in the experience of the Slipper Contest. Was it a little silly and cheesey? Yes, but our goal of bonding and laughter was met with great success!
Cyndee Ownbey blogs over at Women’s Ministry Toolbox and is passionate about helping other Women’s Ministry Leaders reach and encourage women in their church and community. She and her husband, two sons (12 and 15), and miniature schnauzer, Heidi, recently relocated to the Charlotte, NC area. When she’s not gathering and gleaning great ministry ideas you can find her trying out new recipes or immersed in her latest Christian fiction pick.
We recently served the pictured mini-bundt cakes at a women’s event. They were ordered from a company in our area called “Nothing Bundt Cakes” which I have no problem recommending, as they were delicious. However, you may not have that franchise nearby. But what I want to bring to your attention is the little containers these cakes came in and in which we served them. Having a prepackaged dessert like that turned out to be a blessing in more ways than one. First, it eliminated the need for paper plates (though we did have napkins), saving money. A bonus benefit was that it reduced the mess considerably, compared to serving slices of cake or cupcakes. But we found an unexpected benefit: The little containers made it easy for the ladies to take home any leftovers that they hadn’t finished! So many ladies pay for the event, but possibly don’t want to eat sweets or can’t finish it. This way, they can easily take home whatever is left to enjoy another day! 