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The Puzzle of Room Assignments

Each retreat can have its own unique retreat rooming options.  Assigning rooms in a hotel to retreat attendees is easier because our retreat registration form gives space for each attendee to write down her roommate preferences; in addition, the form requires that each attendee designate the person with whom she will share a bed  (if she chooses the four-to-a-room option in a hotel).  This information reduces, but does not eliminate, the work involved in assigning rooms and finalizing the rooming list.  This is because sometimes someone chooses the four-to-a-room option, yet designates only the one other person who will share her bed (required for that option), but  lists no other roommates. Or, potential roommates are listed who do not actually register for the retreat.   So it is our job to shuffle people around so that all rooms are filled correctly.

We used to give other options, such as snorer/non-snorer, quiet room/party room, etc.  That made it way too confusing!  As much as possible, make your ladies do their own room assignments.  And with the remaining rooms, it helps to consider this a puzzle.  List your rooms, with any special features (i.e. handicap room, etc.).  Then use a pencil to assign rooms.  Do the easy ones first–the ones where the roommates are designated.  Then pray for wisdom and discernment as you assign women to the remaining rooms.

 

 

 

 

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Sign Up Mystery

Why do ladies wait until the last minute to register for a retreat (or other event)?  We’ve puzzled about this for years.

Normally, whether we are making a contract with a hotel or with a caterer,  we are required to make the best estimate possible of the number of ladies who will attend.  We have a registration deadline, after which we turn in our final head count.  It is very common for a majority of ladies to wait and sign up within hours of that deadline.

So what’s the problem?

If all the hotel rooms that we contracted for are not filled, we pay for rooms that we don’t use, ultimately resulting in the retreat going into the red.  For other events, not having a number until the last minute can hinder and delay planning and preparation.  When ladies wait to sign up, someone in charge is probably struggling to avoid panic.  Decisions may have to be made based on a smaller estimate due to low early sign up, just to be safe.

How can you encourage an earlier sign up?

A preliminary registration deadline may be helpful to relieving this stress.  This preliminary registration deadline states:  If you pay by such-and-such date, your cost is one amount; if you pay after that date (but before the final registration date), your cost is $10-$20 more.  Most (but not all) ladies will respond to this financial “encouragement” to register before the last minute.

 

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In Lieu of a Speaker…

So, what do you do when you want to have a retreat but either do not have a speaker or can not afford to bring one in?  Linda from Roseville, California, shared that their retreat speaker was on a DVD that they purchased.  Of course, if you do that, you want to check any copyright restrictions, but that can be a wonderful solution enabling a small women’s ministry to do a retreat!  Even without the main “speaker” being there in person, you can guarantee that much personal ministry will still be going on.  Thanks for your tip, Linda!

Posted in: Retreat and Event Planning, Your Guest Speaker

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“Mama Drama”

Moms with children at home are at the top of the list when it comes to NEEDING a retreat!!   Those with infants are easily accommodated at your retreat.  We ask moms not to bring babies that are 6 months old or older.  Older babies needing to move around and talk and babble just don’t work at a retreat. Don’t let a more “free spirited” mom talk you into allowing her “very compliant” 9 month old to attend.  It just doesn’t work and she will miss out on most of the retreat anyway.

To avoid distractions that can really undermine the flow of the retreat, consider making these options for those with babies:
  •  Reserve a spot in the back of the room near the door for all moms with babies.  This accommodates moms who may need to make a quick exit if the baby becomes fussy.
  • Let all moms with babies know that there is optional seating available outside the room where the mom could still listen to the speaker.

Posted in: Lessons Learned, Little Things Make a Big Difference!, Retreat and Event Planning

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Honorariums Revisited

We have previously discussed the honorarium paid to the retreat guest speaker.  We based the numbers on our experience as a small church in the midwest.  Recently, we got some input from someone who speaks regularly at church retreats around the country, and she thought our numbers were low.  According to her, if she does a retreat locally, even if there are less than 100 ladies, $600 would be an average payment.  Usually, if she flies somewhere, it is a larger church footing the bill, and they pay between $600 (2-3 sessions) -$1000 (4 sessions), although $1,000 would be higher than normal.

You may want to compare notes with other churches in your area to determine the “going rate.”

 

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