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10 Encouraging Verses for Women’s Ministry Leaders

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In no particular order, I want to share a few verses that have been particularly encouraging or challenging to me as a women’s ministry leader:

  1. I Corinthians 11:1:  “Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ.”  Have you ever really considered the boldness of this statement that Paul made to the Corinthian church? As a Christian, it encourages me, and as a leader it challenges and convicts me.  How would you feel about daily wearing a button or a t-shirt with those words on it?  Would you want to hide when you were having a bad day, or when tasks were overwhelming or people were annoying you?
  2. I Corinthians 16:15b “…they have devoted themselves to the ministry of the saints….”  Paul describes the household of Stephanas with the words “devoted to the ministry of the saints.”  Another translations uses the word “addicted.”  What a picture that paints…leaders who can’t stop serving even if they wanted to–they are obsessed with serving.  They are hooked, and they can’t stop!
  3. John 15:5c: “Apart from Me, you can do nothing.”  This is a good reminder to all leaders all the time, because our flesh always wants to get in the way.  If we are not on guard all the time, it is easy to find ourselves doing things in our flesh, using our common sense and our own abilities instead of recognizing our need for Him.
  4. Galatians 6:9 “Don’t get weary in well-doing, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”  This should be lodged in your memory, available at a moment’s notice, because (light-bulb moment)… ministry can be wearying. People can burn you out; needs can be overwhelming.  Keep your eyes on the harvest.
  5. I Timothy 6:20a:  “Guard what has been entrusted to your care.”  We have responsibility for the souls in our care, and those souls are of great value to God.
  6. I Corinthians 15:58 “Therefore, stand firm.  Let nothing move you.  Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” The enemy of our souls, that great “Discourager” tirelessly works to convince you that your labor in the Lord is in vain.  Are you going to believe him?  We walk by faith and not by sight.
  7. Philippians 1:27a  “Conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ.”  This verse reminds us of the high standards of conduct the Lord requires.  Our women are watching, possibly more than you realize.  They are watching how you handle problems and conflict, they are watching you handle disappointment and trials in your own life, they are watching what comes out of your mouth.
  8. Philippans 4:8 “Finally, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think on these things.”  What we allow our minds to dwell on will sooner or later determine our actions and speech. It is a discipline leaders should take seriously, because our thoughts can be our downfall.
  9. Philippians 2:14-16a “Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life…”  Our world is obviously getting darker by the moment–but that is when our light shines brightest. We can be a light in a dark place as we continue to hold fast to the Word of life.  Shine on!
  10. Mark 10:45 “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”  Just a reminder for all of us.  We are privileged to follow in Jesus’ footsteps to serve others and give our lives for them.

 

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Telling Your Story – Some Reminders

Typewriter What is Your StoryRecently I shared about the impact that sharing our testimony can have on listeners.  I have been reminded of a few further things that may be worth considering should you have the opportunity to share your testimony.  Greg Laurie, in a recent email devotion, wrote “I don’t understand why God would use someone as foolish as me or you to articulate His message.  But the Holy Spirit can make that message resonate with the listener if we are simply bold enough to share it.”  He continued with the following reminders:  Make Jesus the focus of your testimony.  You tell your story to point to His story.  Don’t glorify or exaggerate your past.  There is power in your story, whether dramatic or not.

When you share your testimony, don’t emphasize the darkness. Don’t spend a disproportionate amount of time on your former life of rebellion and sin; Your emphasis should be on how God worked in your life, the changes He made and His amazing love and power that brought you out of darkness into “His marvelous light.”

 

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A Little More about Guest Speakers

I believe that weGuest-Speaker-Event-400x400 all receive more from a speaker when we feel a personal connection with her.

For instance, last year our guest speaker was a fairly well-known retreat speaker.  The whole circumstance of her being here was a miracle in many ways, because we, as a small church, normally couldn’t afford a more well-known speaker.  However, because she had been a personal friend of our late pastor’s wife, she offered to do this retreat, knowing that it would be our first without our beloved pastor’s wife at the helm.  The majority of our ladies had never met the speaker, but I believe that all of us felt a deeper connection to her and her message because we knew that she understood and had suffered the same loss.  In addition, as she shared some difficulties that her family had faced in the previous year, more connections were made with ladies in similar situations.

Yes, that was a very unique year.  However, the same holds true with every guest speaker.  If they share from their personal life or highlights of their testimony at the beginning of our retreat, often these moments will provide that personal connection for our ladies.  That connection will be a conduit for the message and application of the truths she shares.

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Re-Discovering “Broken Heart”

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You never know what you might find as you go through old files!  This week I did something I have been putting off for months–cleaned out my file cabinet.  I hate to admit it, but I may be a paper hoarder!

I have a file drawer of skits–consisting mostly of those we have written over the years.  But this week I ran into a script for a one-act play called “Broken Heart.”  I first encountered this play in Bible School, over 30 years ago. I have to say that to this day it is one of the most powerful plays I have ever seen. I immediately asked for a copy of the script, which had the author’s name, but no contact or copyright information.  Back in the early 90’s I searched for the author, but my only option was calling information and trying to find a phone number.  But when I saw the script last week in my file, I thought about searching using Facebook, and voila! I sent out a couple inquiries to those with similar names, and within 24 hours I had found the author.

Because I assume that many of you, my regular readers, found this website looking for retreat skits, I wanted to make this resource known to you.  “Broken Heart” is a serious drama, unlike most of the skits found on the www.retreatinabag website.  I have excerpted from the author’s website the following summary:

 Broken Heart is a story about a young girl (representing you and I) growing up with hurts by parents, friends, a boyfriend, and others that continue to tear away at her heart.  The play makes extensive use of unique props to visually communicate our efforts to protect ourselves  from the hurts of life in harmful ways such as through anger, bitterness, busyness,  and more.

A Satan figure fiendishly supplies the young girl with “toys”  to protect her heart. All the while, Jesus repeatedly approaches her with compassion, only to be rebuffed by the girl for most of the play. God brings healing to the girl’s heart in ways that often surprise viewers and brings tears in the end.   
There is so much more to read regarding this play at her website:  www.lindajmacdonald.com.  She does have a download fee, but it is so worth it!  That I remember it after all these years says something about it! If you are working with hurting teens or women, this play can have a healing impact on the viewers.

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A Speaker Speaks

5208fdc422fbc.imageI recently had an opportunity to sit down with a popular retreat speaker and ask her some frank questions. I believe her answers will help us serve our guest speakers.  I am going to bullet point her comments below. Remember, I am speaking from a small church perspective!

  • Questions to ask prior to the event:
    •       What drink or snacks do you prefer?
    •       Do you have any allergies?
    •       What equipment do you need?
    •       Do you like to have breakfast served in your room so you can prepare for the day?
  • Assign someone to be the speaker’s helper–someone she can call upon for any problem or need.  Give the speaker a number to text to get this person’s help.
  • Do a sound check with the speaker, as well as confirming that she knows how to use any other equipment she needs (for instance, if she is using a pointer or projecting slides).  Microphones and other equipment differ from place to place.
  • We don’t do this, but apparently some churches will decorate the speaker’s room, even to the point of leaving her a cozy robe. But the question arises: Do they mean for me to take these things home? If you do decorate her room, be sure she knows what is hers to take.
  • Announcements directly after a speaker’s session can distract from what God is doing.  Give God time to work. A time of reflection after a teaching session can be helpful.
  • Give the honorarium check discreetly, after the retreat, and enclose a specific thank-you written after the event.  Giving your women an opportunity to contribute their comments and thank-yous to this is an added blessing.
  • If you leave a gift basket for your guest speaker in her room:
    • Remember: if she is flying, a basket may be difficult to carry on an airplane.
    • Hotel or camp water may not be to her liking; include bottled water if it is not provided.
    • Eating prior to a session may be hard for her; include some snacks in her gift basket (healthy protein snacks, trail mix, bananas).
    • Socks are nice.
  • It is nice to have a coffee pot (or tea, if preferred) in the speaker’s room.

 

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